Strap On Preperation

Strapon Play

Also known as ‘pegging’ this is the opportunity to experience the exquisite and intense sensations of anal play and penetration. Many Dommes enjoy the power this gives them over their sub with the flip side being the giving of yourself to your Mistress. Watching their enjoyment as they take you adds to the physical pleasure you will experience. It will probably feel strange the first time and there is a natural impulse to fight back against something being pushed into your butt. The key to a good experience is to try to relax, enjoy the sensations and trust your Mistress.

For men, it is important to rid yourself of any notion that, ‘anal play means gay’. Many straight men enjoy strapon so do not deprive yourself because of old-fashioned notions about what it is to be a man. The other common anxiety is concern about poo and possible ‘mishaps’. Well, this is what that part of the body does, so do not panic too much but Your Mistress will expect you to be clean inside and out.

So what happens? In a sentence, the intensity of the sensations that can occur will blow your mind. There are two main ways your Mistress will suggest ‘taking you’. Either you get into a sling and lie on your back or you bend over something like a bench. Both are good depending on your preference. Personally, I like the former because I can see my Mistress as she penetrates me and I get off watching Her enjoyment of the power She wields over me.

She will test you with her gloved fingers first, pick a dildo that She thinks will work for you (expect to see all dildos covered with a condom). Now relax and let your Mistress do the driving. You will quickly begin to feel pleasurable sensations as Her cock explores you. With any luck these sensations will build and build heading towards what you might feel is some kind of explosion, often called an ‘assgasm’. Do not confuse this with a conventional orgasm, you will almost certainly not cum, in the usual way. If you are a man it is your prostate and other pressure points that are at work. Personally, I experience this every time and ‘come’ many times losing myself in the releases.

One thing please: do not start playing with your cock while Mistress is fucking you, it is disrespectful. If you wish to do so, ask, but be prepared for a likely “No”. Better still, lie back and enjoy the ride. Mistress will expend a lot of energy pleasuring you and will know when you have had enough but equally you must tell Her if anything becomes painful.

With this mind, strapon play can be light or heavy. As you get used to the sensations over time your Mistress may like to test you with longer and/or fatter dildos. Again, trust Her and relax. “The bigger the better”, is going too far, but like anything BDSM let your Mistress be the judge. If ‘big’ is something of an aspiration then purchase some butt plugs and indulge in some self-training. However, we are all built differently and what is small for me might be big for you. So experiment. (My personal preference is the soft and flexible silicone plugs/dildos).

How to Ensure You are Clean
Let’s be blunt, when it comes to strapon play, most people worry about the question of poo. There is no need to be overly anxious about this but there are steps that you must take prior to a strapon session. This means visiting the loo as close to the session as possible while also ensuring the relevant areas are clean. In summary:

Buy an anal douche and lube. There are many types available but the kind that attach to the shower are good. Consider buying one of the rubber ‘bulb’ type as well. These can be taken to a session for a ‘final rinse’ (don’t forget the lube!)

Be aware of what you eat and drink. Is it a good idea to have a steaming hot curry washed down with pints of beer the night before your play? Of course not.

There lots of on-line resources detailing the best way to go about cleaning and I recommend you locate and read through a few.

There will be occasional mishaps but so long as you have taken steps to minimise the scale of the mishap Mistress will understand. So do not fret so much that it spoils your enjoyment.

Have fun!

FenPup 2019